Did you noticed? Each word in the title started with a w....
Anyway, Valentine's day is tomorrow and I was so hyped up for Valentine's day weekend, which just passed. Chris managed to come over (wow) and he got a chance to taste my cooking the next morning. I made chicken curry paired with vegetable soup. Curry made out well, but not so much the vegetable soup. That's ok, at least one thing was decent, which is already a big step for me in cooking.
Sunday morning, though, we spent majority of the day arguing about the 'Fishball Party'. Essentially, the argument boils down to: "What I want isn't what we have now. But to get to what I want, we must go through what we are having now." In other words, like many couples in the world, we are in the transitional / preparation stage. We have a clear goal, but we are not quite there.
I have to tell you, I was upset and all caught up in my emotions, but at the same time, there was much clarity. I knew very clearly what I wanted. I knew exactly what I wanted for our future. It was also the first time in a very long time that I stood up for what I believed in. I said, "I may tolerate it, but I will never ever accept it."
I was never like that before. I would never be so bold and clear about my views before. I just didn't have a stance before. But on Sunday, I did and it, like many others have said, felt liberating. Everything became clear and certain. I became more certain
Strange.....may some time to get used to it.
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